2021.09.27 20:21 M0istBread How should I approach this friends that I like?
To start things off, I’ve known this girl for 3 years now and we’ve been friends since the end of college. We were never best friends but we used to hang out every so often, and since we graduated we’ve kept up with each other pretty well. Since I met her I’ve been romantically interested in her but never found myself in a good place to show my feelings for her.
To add onto this, I got into a relationship 2 years ago and when I told her about it, she seemed to some degree upset about it. I assume it’s because she felt something for me as well and never had the courage to tell me either.
Long story short that relationship didn’t work out, so here I am. I am honestly regretful I never opened up to her and got into this other relationship but that’s a different story.
Flash forward to now, my friend is in her first semester of grad school and I finally got to see her again physically since the pandemic started. We had a really amazing time hanging out/ catching up and to my surprise we got a little physical, feeling each other’s hair just generally more touchy interactions than I’ve ever experienced with her. This sort of proved to me that she is emotionally interested in me to some significant degree, like I’ve always been.
This situation sent me in an emotional rollercoaster because in this moment of my life I really wasn’t expecting to feel anything towards anyone. Though I’ve always liked this girl too much to not do anything about it, and I don’t want to be waiting around and regret not making a move.
In normal circumstances I think I’d know how to take this forward— I’d probably just keep talking to her, and invite her to hang out in person a few more times and open up to her sooner than later— but there are a few obstacles in my way.
I’m going to travel for the rest of the year. Obviously we can text and talk on the phone but there’ll be a certain level of disconnect with how much time she can dedicate to talking to me— which I’m sure is distracting to her studies. In addition she doesn’t even know how I completely feel yet so in some way I think it would feel awkward to push conversations every day or just often in general.
I almost feel like the only way that I could possibly make this go smoothly is if I was going to be able to continue hanging out with her in person and build off the vibes from the last time we were hanging out.
I feel incredibly lost because I don’t know how to approach this without making things awkward or just simply harder for me to deal with.
Should I open up to this girl now/ soon or should I wait until I’m back in town?
I just want to tell her the truth but If I were to open up to her now I’d probably only be talking to her over the phone for months afterwards, which doesn’t seem ideal.
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2021.09.27 20:21 mondaymelon Feel like a pup parent fail
Anyone else had their vet ask them whether you train your dog?!
I feel like a pup parent failure, took puppers to vet today because he has been excessively licking himself (apparently the culprit is a low level allegern) and at the end of my conversation with the vet he asked me if I train my golden retriever puppy who is 5 months old because he is so excitable (he was bouncing all over the place, jumping up to greet etc.) The little guy was running into the vets office he was such a keen bean 😂 but the way the vet said it made me feel like a flop - I’ve been putting in time and effort to train puppers ever day, he just gets super excited over new people and dog. I’m trying to work on his jumping and now cross the road if I see people coming towards us as literally every passerby wants to pet him even when I ask them not too because he is jumping 🙄
Sorry for the vent - it’s just when the vet said the breed is so trainable you should be taking him to classes - in my head I was thinking no shit Sherlock, you’ve literally made me feel like I’ve put in no effort to train him to date 😩
Sigh I think I just feel worse because it’s the vet who said it and probably sees dozens of well behaved puppies a day
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2021.09.27 20:21 Imperioclose GRUPO TELEGRAM
2021.09.27 20:21 BrwnSugarGingerBread I wonder what was Voldemort’s intended horcrux
Voldemort was going to use baby Harry’s death for his final horcrux. Instead Harry became a horcrux unbeknownst to Voldemort. So when Voldemort got his body back, he still (in his mind) needed the 6th and final horcrux. He then used Frank Bryce’s death to turn Nagini into his final horcrux. But what did he plan to use when he went to kill baby Harry?
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2021.09.27 20:21 Impossible-Tap-7820 Why and why not you think Instagram has ruined mental health for millions of people?
2021.09.27 20:21 _ElGlizzyMuncher Lucky or unlucky?
2021.09.27 20:21 Ravioli4u What's SHE Up To Now Day 1337? Clear Joy?
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2021.09.27 20:21 ScraahTV How to clean enamel cast iron
I just got a cuisinart enamel cast iron Dutch oven and I just want to make sure I can use dish soap to clean it. I know you shouldn’t on normal cast iron so I wanted to make sure I wasn’t ruining it.
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2021.09.27 20:21 blackclothing90 THIS!! Still a lot of stigma..
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2021.09.27 20:21 JJAPR I sell me contrat claim robinhood i sell in 10$ and Robinhood give back 9.98$ and i email and the tell me first no fees and look next new fee in robinhood. For no pay me back. Free robinhood no is true thief!
2021.09.27 20:21 Trickster107 Any online sims to test this out?
I usually play Yugioh and have seen a lot of players starting to try this and loving it, I usually test decks on fan made platforms like Duelingbook and EDOpro and it also helps me get a handle on the rules. I was wondering if there are any popular sims so I could get started and try the game
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2021.09.27 20:21 new_to_cincy Anyone else feel like the cat they love would give them a 1-star review?
Makes me sad when they meow all impatiently like, “You call this service? I demand to speak to your Meow-nager!” Usually for food, attention, or clean litter. I’m trying, man. :(
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2021.09.27 20:21 Master-Finish3577 I experience it alot . How about you guys . #relatable
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2021.09.27 20:21 Vegeta_Bhau hello :)
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2021.09.27 20:21 ArtistNassar If you have a tree trunk, don't throw it away | home decorations from tr...
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2021.09.27 20:21 fribird7 27 [M4F] Looking for a new friend to chat with about anything and have fun.
As the title says, looking for a new friend to chat and have fun with. Can chat about anything just as long as we are both enjoying the conversation.
I'm 27. I have cats and will show them off if you wanna see them. I work full-time in IT, enjoy Netflix, and playing a few games. I play poker but haven't really this past year.
Send me your kik if you're interested in chatting. Have a good one.
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2021.09.27 20:21 Live_Needleworker_80 Zoro Edit
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2021.09.27 20:21 jacky4566 TFSA withdrawl question
I want to transfer my TFSA from Quest Trade to IBKR.
QT chargers $150 to transfer the account positions directly.
OR 0$ if i liquidate the positions and transfer the cash to my regular chequing.
Question is. If i move money between TFSA > Chequing> TFSA will i hurt my TFSA contribution room? OR would CRA not care about movements like that.
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2021.09.27 20:21 OPGAMING8 Trigger Path - Goodbye
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2021.09.27 20:21 poluza112 Vivi Panamera
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2021.09.27 20:21 toreishi How Drugs Won the War on Drugs
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2021.09.27 20:21 Away_Reporter_8126 Why do people think I'm crazy?
Hello, sooo...Friday was embarrassing but the reason why I say embarrassing, is because I shifted (mentally/phantom/sensory shifted) and...my family says that I need to be on medication cuz they think and told people that I'm "crazy" even though I tried to explain what therian meant and they refuse to listen.
Then my dad said to me "you want to be an animal? Then do that somewhere else and not near the family, you're scaring your little brothers out even more."
I ran away (even though I'm 18) and then the police found me and they took me back to the house and all of a sudden dad says "where were you? We were worried sick!"
Liar! And I'm like "are you kidding me right now?! You guys kicked me out of the house because of---"
I didn't want to say it in front of the officers.
The only thing that confuses me more was: why call the cops on me when I'm EIGHTEEN years old and your own dad told you to never come back to the house??? This is why I hate Ohio.
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2021.09.27 20:21 homepreplive Born in 45?
2021.09.27 20:21 BurtonDesque Anti-LGBTQ church to hold prayer vigil for ex-minister beaten up for molesting boy at bus stop
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2021.09.27 20:21 AWtech18 New Bill Will Allow Employees To Sue employer Over Vaccine Side Effects in Alabama
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